Family Constellation allows you to see and understand why a pattern keeps happening in your life. FC is so empowering, it heals and restores the energy flow so you may live without entanglements from the past. So you can just be you.

Family Constellation is a process of acknowledgment to bring order back into your life and change generational patterns.

You may experience family of origin issues, parent-child relationship difficulties, and intimate relationship challenges.

  • Family constellations can benefit you if you

  • Are seeking to address negative relationship patterns

  • Want to be in a romantic relationship

  • Are attempting to resolve family entanglements

  • Want to overcome inner turmoil

  • Have experienced trauma or loss

  • Are in search of personal and professional success

  • Are wanting to access compassion and understanding within your life.

How to join?

A family constellation can be done in a group or private session.

If you would like to join the next workshop please contact Dharamjot directly with your expression of interest. To run a group 3-6 participants are required.

For an individual session please allow 2 hours for your appointment.

Developed by Bert Hellinger, a German psychotherapist and psychoanalyst, in the 1990s, Family Constellation work has its origins in the practices of the Zulu people and Western therapeutic approaches. As we know and practice Constellations today, it is an alternative form of therapy and a life practice.

The conventional setting involves a seated circle of individuals who gather, offering their awareness and presence and thus creating, what practitioners refer to as, "the (Knowing) Field". This energy field is where the work takes place, whether conducted in a group or private setting. In the virtual format, the exploration of this field expands into new dimensions, maintaining the same core principles. 

At its core, Family Constellations rests on the notion that the issues and patterns we encounter in our daily lives (either on the surface or in the subconscious) are intricately connected to and deeply rooted in our family system.  The work involves building awareness of these connections, a process continually facilitated through this therapeutic approach.

​The work was initially developed in a group setting (as it is still mostly practiced today), placing significant emphasis on the concept that when one individual shares and works on their issues and narratives, it is intended to benefit all participants in their own healing journey. This work primarily revolves around listening to movements. The process begins with a "seeker," an individual with a specific issue, posing a question to the facilitator. The facilitator guides a process of "setting up" other participants from the circle (termed "representatives") in the center of the circle, known as "the Field."

These representatives then follow their impulses, offering insight into hidden dynamics and ultimately leading to profound healing movements—referred to by Bert Hellinger as "movements of the soul." The process is intuitive, non-biased, and fosters a connection with one's authenticity, inner wisdom, and soul force as the catalyst for change.

Participants may either have their own constellation set up or serve as representatives in others' constellations. It is crucial to note that this work is not only energy work but soul work, residing not in the intellect but within the depths of the soul. In German, Constellation work is also known as "Seelenarbeit" ("soul work")

What to expect at a workshop..

Upcoming Workshop Dates

I invite you to experience the power of family constellations in these upcoming workshops. Each workshop has a general theme to help guide the day and unpack what might be blocking us and clear the patterns that no longer serve us.

Join upcoming Family Constellation workshops with Dharamjot here. Each workshop is 10am-4pm at Melbourne Integrated Therapies, Thornbury. Please bring your own lunch. You can join to have your own constellation or as a observer/representative.

If you join to have your own constellation the fee includes a 20min pre and post workshop call 2 and the constellation that is usually 60min.

You may also like to join the package that build your awareness on many levels with 3 constellation workshops - one with your own constellation and 2 as a representative.

March 17

Mastery
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July 7

Addiction

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August 4

Love

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September 1

Vitality

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October 6

Joy

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May 7

Grief
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November 3

Belonging

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June 2

Commitment
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I was first introduced to Family Constellation work by Margarete Koenning during my Gestalt Therapy training in 2007 at Terrigal Gestalt Institute. Later I was at a beach retreat in Thailand and met Barrie Musgrave who did a private constellation with dolls as representatives. It was very accurate and healing.

I found it profoundly interesting how we can access the unseen dynamics of our systems and heal the past.

Later in 2013 Gurudev Singh (Sat Nam Rasayan) suggested that I learn how to become a facilitator of constellations. In 2014 I joined the 18 month Family Constellation facilitator course offered by Monika Wyss in Malaysia. Since then I have been offering private and group sessions with themes to find your inner light, return to love and to return to essence. The sessions are dynamic, insightful and life changing.

HERE IS A QUOTE FROM BERT HELLINGER - “OUR TEACHERS”

Often I forgot what I owe them. It all became so naturally a part of my life and of myself, of which I was proud, as if it came from me. Forgetting my teachers sometimes, much that I owe them escapes me. It becomes less for me and loses strength.

It is different when I have them in my heart, when I remember them with gratitude. Then I feel richly given to. They are with me in what I do and in what I pass on to others, when, as they did to me, I give to others what serves their life and achievement.


Do I feel small in comparison to them? On the contrary. I may stand next to them, in the service of life, like them, humble and small before life, and thus all the more completely at one with life and its movements.


When I honour and share what I owe my teachers, others take from me more openly what I give to them for their life. Their gaze goes beyond me to all those who were by my side, who shared my life with me, as I share it with others.


Then we all look beyond our teachers, to the creative spirit who is equally at work in all life. As we did before this spirit, we bow to our teachers, and they, together with us, bow before this spirit.

Before this spirit we remain below, on the ground, all of us, all grateful, all equally alive, and equally in spirit’s service.
— Bert Hellinger

How Family Constellation appeared in my Life…